Wishlist tips

How to keep separate wishlists for different people and occasions

One wishlist works until your gran, your best friends and your colleagues are all shopping from it, and your Christmas ideas sit next to things for the new flat. Here’s when separate lists help, how to split your wishes up, how to share a list with your partner for a wedding or baby shower, and how to set it all up in GiftCrew.

When one wishlist stops working

A single list is fine when the same few people buy you presents once a year. It gets harder as more people and occasions share it. A few signs it’s time to split:

  • Budgets are far apart. A colleague looking for something small has to scroll past the coffee machine your family might club together for.
  • Some wishes aren’t for everyone. Things you’d happily ask your partner or best friend for may not be what you want the office to see.
  • Occasions overlap. Winter boots for Christmas and a tent for your summer birthday end up on one list, and people can’t tell which is meant for when.
  • One project takes over. Moving house or starting a hobby fills the list with one kind of thing, and everything else gets lost.

Ways to split your wishes

By circle: family, friends and the office

Family often likes to buy something practical or bigger, so their list can hold the things you’d really use every day. Friends tend to go for experiences, fun extras and gifts they can split. For the office, keep a short list of small, low-cost things with nothing personal on it.

By occasion: Christmas and your birthday

Keep a Christmas list that you fill in around November, and a birthday list for the rest of the year. Whatever you don’t get at Christmas can move to your birthday list, so good ideas don’t go to waste.

By project: a new flat, a hobby, a new baby

A list like “For the new flat” keeps the kettle, the bookshelf and the house plants together, and you can show it to the people most likely to help you settle in. When the project’s done, delete the list or keep it for later.

Keep it to a few

Two or three lists you keep up to date beat six you forget about. A wish you no longer want, or already have, is exactly the one someone will buy. If two groups would want the same wishes, show them the same list rather than keeping two copies.

One list with your partner for a wedding or baby shower

Some occasions belong to two people. For a wedding, a baby shower or a joint party, guests don’t want to compare two personal lists; they want one list for the couple, the way a registry works.

In GiftCrew, that’s an event. The event has one shared wishlist that its honorees own together, and either of you can add, change or remove wishes. You don’t have to start from scratch, either:

  • When you create the event, choose It’s for me, and you can start its wishlist with a copy of one of your lists.
  • Later, any honoree can import wishes from their own lists on the event’s page.
  • Importing again only adds wishes that aren’t on the event’s wishlist yet, never duplicates, and it points out ones that might already be there because they have the same name or link.
  • You can still add wishes straight to the event’s wishlist, and your own lists stay as they are.

For more on running the event itself, see the wedding gift guide and the baby shower guide.

How to do it in GiftCrew

Start with My wishlist

Everyone starts with one list called My wishlist. It’s your default, so it’s picked for you when you join or start a group. On Free, you have 1 wishlist with up to 5 items.

Add a list for each occasion

With Pro, you can keep up to 10 wishlists with up to 50 items on each. On your wishlist page, tap New wishlist, give it a name like “Christmas” or “Family”, and start with an empty list or a copy of one you have.

Choose which groups see it

Each birthday or Secret Santa group sees one of your lists. Tick the groups in the wishlist’s settings, or switch from the group’s own page. One list can show in several groups, and it’s the same list in all of them, so a change shows up everywhere at once.

Copy wishes across

To put a wish on two lists, copy it to the other one. Copies are separate wishes, so you can change the note on one without touching the other.

Switch without worrying

If you switch the list a group sees, gifts people already claimed stay theirs to give. And your list names are private: people only see your name, as in “Maya’s wishlist”. The full details are on the multiple wishlists page.

Keep every list useful

Mix price ranges on each list. Even the office list works better with a couple of options at different prices.

Check a list before its occasion. A couple of weeks before Christmas or your birthday, remove what you’ve bought yourself and put what you want most at the top.

Add the details people guess at. Size, color and a link to the exact product save everyone a question. See how to add gifts from any online shop.

Frequently asked questions

Should I have separate wishlists for family and friends?

If they buy you different kinds of gifts, yes. Family often likes practical or bigger things, friends lean towards experiences and gifts they can split, and colleagues want something small. A list for each makes it easier for everyone to find something that fits.

How many wishlists can I have in GiftCrew?

On Free, you have 1 wishlist with up to 5 items. Pro lets you keep up to 10 wishlists, each with up to 50 items, and choose which one each group sees.

Can two groups see the same wishlist?

Yes. One list can show in several of your groups. It’s the same list everywhere, so when you change a wish, every group that sees it gets the change at once.

Do people see what I named my lists?

No. List names are just for you. In GiftCrew, people in your groups only see your name, as in “Maya’s wishlist”.

Can my partner and I share one wishlist?

For a shared occasion, like a wedding, a baby shower or a joint party, yes. Create an event in GiftCrew and make you both honorees: the event gets one wishlist you own together, and each of you can import wishes from your own lists.

What happens to claimed gifts if I switch which list a group sees?

They stay with the people who claimed them, so anyone who already picked a gift can still give it. The wish just isn’t shown in that group anymore.

Give each occasion its own list

Create a free GiftCrew account and start your wishlist. When one list isn’t enough, Pro lets you keep a list for family, friends, Christmas or the new flat, and choose which one each group sees.

How multiple wishlists work